Welcome to AYSO Region 253
Serving the communities of Bentley, Halstead, Kechi, North Wichita,
Park City, Sedgwick, Valley Center and Whitewater.

Talking to Children About Safety

  1. Avoid scare tactics when discussing personal safety. Reassure your child that most people are kind and safe. Those who are not are the exception.
  2. Teach your child basic sex education, i.e., the areas of the body covered by a bathing suit are private.
  3. Instill within your child a sense of self-worth at every opportunity.
  4. Develop strong communication skills with your children. Explain the importance of reporting abuse to you or another trusted adult.
  5. Establish that sexual abuse is a crime. This gives children the confidence to assert themselves with those who try to abuse them.
  6. Allow children to express affection on their own terms. Do not instruct them to "Give Uncle Jimmy a kiss" or "Give Aunt Susan a hug."
  7. Stress that there should be no secrets from you, especially those involving an adult.
  8. Stress the importance of reporting rumors or threats of violence, including bomb threats and weapon possession by schoolmates. Reinforce that reporting can be done anonymously, but that school officials must be told for the safety of everyone.
  9. Above all, encourage children to recognize, trust and follow their instincts -- and listen to your own instincts. If a situation or person makes you or your child uneasy, believe in your feelings and act on them.

 

Last Updated 8/21/2007

 

 

 

 

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