Welcome to AYSO Region 253
Serving the communities of Bentley, Halstead, Kechi, North Wichita,
Park City, Sedgwick, Valley Center and Whitewater.

ABCs of AYSO 

AN INTRODUCTION

The ABC's of AYSO is your introduction to the American Youth Soccer Organization (AYSO), your local Region 253, and youth soccer in general. You can skip around via the hyperlinks or simply print and read this in the order presented.

Starting with A (About AYSO), you'll find what's in store for you and your youngster as members of the finest youth sports organization in the country. You'll also learn about the principles and philosophies that make AYSO so special and how our organization works. Finally, the general ideas governing the local season in Region 253 are introduced.

Next, B (By the Book), is your primer to the exciting sport of soccer: positions, skills and a few basic laws of the game.

Last, C (Codes of Conduct), is where we detail how important Good Sportsmanship is to our organization. From our Player's Code to the Six Pillars of Character to the Parent's Code - AYSO hopes to build more than soccer players, we hope to build outstanding kids!

With AYSO, you'll find no better an environment for your child to develop confidence and good sportsmanship. And it's our parent Volunteers like you who make it happen! So join today and become trained along with your child.

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ABOUT AYSO

A LITTLE HISTORY

The American Youth Soccer Organization (AYSO) is a widely recognized organization partly due to its trademarked "PLAYSOCCER" bumper stickers used heavily in the 70's. The organization is actually a 100% parent run and dedicated to introducing organized sports to youth in a safe, friendly, and fun environment. It is meant to become an extension of the home and school learning environment to help kids learn positive life lessons while having fun in one of the oldest team sports; known as soccer here in the USA. For most elementary school children, this is the first organized team sport they will experience. In many regions, 1 out of every 2 elementary school children are in the program. Hence, the strong focus on making sure AYSO is a nurturing and positive experience for all.

AYSO works because of dedicated volunteers committed to the five AYSO Philosophies. Our phenomenal growth underscores AYSO's commitment to a healthy competitive atmosphere for youth soccer players combined with dedicated volunteers all working towards developing responsible young people. Because of these philosophies, AYSO is often termed recreational soccer. It is a title we proudly accept in providing a competitive, character-building atmosphere for our youth through sport.

AYSO was founded in 1964 in Torrance, California (near Los Angeles) with about 125 enthusiastic players. Over the past 40 years, we've become a vibrant national organization with over 630,000 players and 250,000 volunteers!

HOW WE DO IT

FIVE AYSO TENETS

HOW AYSO IS STRUCTURED

WHAT IS A REGION

THE LOCAL PLAYING SEASON(S)

ALL VOLUNTEER

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FIVE AYSO TENETS

AYSO has five basic tenets or philosophies that form the foundation for all programs, policies, and rules. These philosophies derive from soccer and the need to support youth sports in a nurturing environment. All are important and meant to be known by all volunteers. Three are founding philosophies of AYSO and oft copied by other youth sports organizations. But none duplicate the real meaning that AYSO endorses.

EVERYONE PLAYS ®
We want kids to play soccer - so we mandate that every player on every team must play at least one half of every game. Furthermore, based on the AYSO National Coaching Association guidelines for small sided games, Region 253 requires that every player play at least 3/4 of every game that they are present, able and willing to play at. To support this, AYSO divides the game up into 4 equal periods (a natural with the way professional soccer is organized into two equal halves). So we enforce that no player sits out a second "quarter" until all have sat out one quarter. A coach cannot use playing time in a game as a punishment. Only injury can keep a player out. No bench warmers.

BALANCED TEAMS
We require every region at the start of every season to set up teams as evenly as possible. It's more fun when teams are of equal ability. Many factors are taken into account in balancing. Past playing ability (if known), age, school, grade and gender. The more these factors are spread around, the more balanced and productive the learning environment for the kids. And thus the more fun they will have. Players are not placed on a team by skill and lower skilled or higher skilled players are not identified and treated differently. Players cannot have names or affiliations on their uniforms. Remember, no tryouts or cuts.

POSITIVE COACHING
We train and encourage our coaches to make the extra effort to understand and offer positive help to our players. This approach builds a positive team spirit and instills character in the players. Furthermore, all spectators are required to show the same respect. Parents tend to over-direct (or coach) from the sidelines. So referees are taught to make sure only coaches coach (prescriptive directives) and parents cheer (descriptive after the event cheers). The more cheering and less coaching from all, the better. No negative criticism towards anyone.

OPEN REGISTRATION
Our programs are open to all children ages 4-18 (grades PreK-12) who want to play soccer. Interest and enthusiasm are the only requirements for playing. There is no restriction based on geographic boundaries, race, religion, ethnic background or any other criteria. The only criteria that limits participation are resources available to the region -- such as fields and volunteer coaches. Open to all.

GOOD SPORTSMANSHIP
We create a positive environment based upon mutual respect, rather than a win-at-all-costs attitude. All of our programs are designed to instill good sportsmanship in our kids and our volunteers. This is a basic philosophy of soccer that still governs the rules and play today. FIFA calls this "Fair Play". A common, older phrase is "For the Good of the Game". As it is, soccer is meant to be played by inventive players. Let the kids play, learn and teach each other. Let them develop a winning attitude independent of the win-loss record. Let them learn character and skills with each game.

All volunteers in AYSO are required to memorize and practice these five philosophies. By taking the first letter of each philosophy you can form the acronym "BEPOG" or possibly "BEGOP" -- a useful way to recall and remember the tenets to put them into practice at all times.

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HOW IS AYSO STRUCTURED?

STRUCTURE OVERVIEW

AYSO is founded upon community involvement. The basic community program is the Region and the volunteer staff members are encouraged to organize their regions to best suit the needs of their community.

Each Region is headed by a Regional Commissioner (RC) who, with the help of a Regional Board of Parents, conducts the region within the framework of AYSO's Five Philosophies, National Rules and Regulations, and National By-laws. A Region may have as few as 200 players or as many as 5,000 players and is grouped into girls and boys divisions based on age. Region 253 has around 900 players.

Several neighboring regions comprise an Area that is headed by another volunter parent -- the Area Director (AD). The AD is responsible for the performance and growth of the Area. Area's tend to have 10,000 players or so. Region 253 is in Area U which includes Andale, Andover, Augusta, Bel Aire, Belle Plaine, Bentley, Clearwater, Colwich, Comotara, Conway Springs, Derby, Eastborough, Garden Plaine, Goddard, Halstead, Haysville, Kechi, Maize, Mulvane, Oaklawn, Oatville, Park City, Peck, Schulte, Sedgwick, Valley Center, Viola, Whitewater, and Wichita, .

AYSO Section 4Several bordering Areas comprise a Section headed by another volunteer parent -- the Section Director (SD). The SD is responsible for the general welfare and administration of a Section. AD's report to Section Directors (SD). A Section may cover several states, an entire state or a portion of a state. There are no such things as "state associations" in AYSO. In fact, geographic or natural boundaries may dictate that a region, area or section span across a state line. Sections tend to have 50,000 players or so. Sections get together once a year to offer the most advanced courses taught by Section and National volunteer staff, and to recognize those individuals who have contributed much to the AYSO program. Area U is in Section 4 which covers North Dakota, South Dakota, Nebraska, Kansas, Colorado, Missouri, Oklahoma, Arkansas, Iowa.

Governing the overall organization are parent volunteers comprising the National Board of Directors (NBOD). RC's, AD's, SD's and National Board Members serve as executive members with voting rights in the corporation known as AYSO. These elected representatives meet once a year at the National Annual General Meeting (NAGM) to decide new policies, procedures, and rules. The NAGM is traditionally held over memorial day weekend in May every year.

The National BOD hires a small, full time staff to administer the programs established by the volunteer board. These are the only non-volunteer positions in the organization and this staff works for all the volunteer parents in the organization. The AYSO staff at the National Support & Training Center (NSTC) in Hawthorne, California (near Los Angeles) works closely with all the executive members, sections, areas and regions in providing many vital services:

  • computerized registration

 

  • training of field and administrative staff

 

  • liability coverage and accident insurance

 

  • organization-wide communications

 

  • annual section meeting support
  • ...and much more

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WHAT IS A REGION?

A REGION DEFINED

Your local AYSO Region 253 is one of more than 1500 local programs in communities nationwide. Each Region is organized under the same National Bylaws and Rules and Regulations which standardize operational procedures and playing rules. However, because community needs may be different, Regions have the flexibility to work within these general rules, regulations, and bylaws to adopt optional programs to satisfy their unique needs.

A Regional Commissioner and the Regional Board of Parents usually meet once a month during the season and perhaps more often for pre-season planning. As a parent of an AYSO player - and hopefully a volunteer! - you are welcome and encouraged to attend these meetings. In fact, your local Region is managed by dedicated volunteers, mostly parents just like yourself, who work to ensure the program is running effectively and that the AYSO Tenents are upheld. And of course, to make sure the kids are having fun! To do this, they make it fun along the way. If your board is not having fun, they are not going to make it fun for your kids either.

Often information is published on the region's Internet Web site with links to Area, Section and National web sites where appropriate. This is likely the place you found this document. Take the time to browse the website and discover the many facets of activity it takes to keep the soccer season going for your child. From grounds people, field equipment maintenance, training programs, coach administration, referee administration, operations, safety, registration, treasurer, marketing, communications, volunteer recognition, uniform and team equipment ordering, to you name it -- we have to do it all to develop and run a full season. Generally, we would like every parent to volunteer in some capacity. So we work to make it fun and enjoyable for the parents as well.

Often we hear AYSO and recreational soccer being downplayed as not serious or competitive. Nothing is farther from the truth. In fact, many professional players in the USA got their start in AYSO. Some The guiding and common interest is developing a program where the kids want to be there to play, learn and have fun. We focus on developing a winning attitude first over a win-loss record. We focus on character development first over skill development. We focus on using soccer and sport as a way to teach positive life lessons, not negative lessons that limit a child's thinking of what they can accomplish. These ideals are there with some of the best coached teams in any sport. We just try and assure they are carried through on every team in AYSO. If this is how you define recreational soccer, then we wear the banner proudly.

Get to know your child's coach and other parents on your team. Volunteer your time and talents to make your Region operate expertly so both you and your child will benefit from the AYSO experience.

What to expect from your Region...

  • A fun soccer experience for your child during games and practices.

  • Coaches and referees who understand soccer and support the AYSO Philosophies.

  • Incremental training for coaches and referees so they improve their skills.

  • Caring volunteers who manage the "business" of the Region.

  • A national organization for support and guidance.

  • Fiscal responsibility via a financial statement published yearly

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THE SEASON

WHEN TO REGISTER; HOW LONG IS A SEASON?

In Region 253, the regular season is usually 8 weekends of games in the Fall and 8 weekends of games in the Spring. Most games are played on Saturday with make up games on Sunday, if needed. Teams practice during the week at a time and place determined by the coach.  About 2-3 weeks before the first game, practices will start.

The traditional Fall season starts games after Labor Day and finishes by Thanksgiving.  The Spring season starts in late February and extends to early May.

An early registration date is generally scheduled at the end of the Spring season. Two regular registration dates are usually planned in August. When space is available on teams, Spring registration is available in early February. What limits the number of players that can be accepted is the number of volunteer coaches and number of volunteer referees. You can improve your child's chances of being accepted onto a team by volunteering for one of these critical positions. We provide all the training necessary for you to perform the function.

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BY THE BOOK

LET'S PLAY SOCCER

Enough about AYSO. Tell me more about the sport. There are many topics in this "B" section of our ABC's:

The Game gives you a general overview of what this great game called soccer is all about.

The Team explains the number of players in a game and the positions.

The Skills section defines the basic skills needed during play.

The Officials section helps you understand the difference between a referee and a club linesman.

The Equipment section explains what you need to play.

The Rules section overviews the seventeen laws that govern soccer - focusing on start and restart of play.

The Fouls and Offenses section explains the Penal and Non-penal fouls that are part of Law 12 as well as misconduct and second touch.

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THE GAME OF SOCCER

WHAT'S THIS GAME ALL ABOUT?

Soccer is a simple game. All you need is a field, a ball, two teams with the proper equipment and a referee.

The field is, at minimum, the size of an American football field for older youth (hopefully wider and longer) and usually smaller for the younger players. That is, up to 130 yards long and 100 yards wide for older kids and possibly only 40 yards long and 30 yards wide for the youngest of kids. For comparison, you can fit 12 full-size basketball courts in a typical soccer field, possibly more. American Football fields are 100 by 50 yards (120 yards when including the end zones). While this field is really to narrow for soccer, often a wider field can be striped to give a roughly 110 x 65 yard playing surface which is ideal for junior high and high school age players.

The game is played in two, timed halves of equal duration. To advance AYSO's "Everyone Plays" commitment, approximately midway each half there is an opportunity for player substitutions. Substitutions are generally not allowed at any other time. Rosters are setup to try and assure that every player on the team does not have to sit out more than one of these "substitution" periods. That is, they get to play 3/4 of every game. The duration of each half is determined by the age of the children playing. The referee is allowed to extend the half with "stoppage time" if he believes the full playing time was not achieved due to extended stoppages for substitution, injuries, fouls or similar reasons. Note that extending time is solely at the referee's discretion and may take into account field availability and other issues as well.

Any kid of any size can become a skilled and successful soccer player as physical size is not an important factor. And the best part for them is that due to the nature of the game, every kid gets a chance to participate in the action and touch the ball!

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THE TEAM

WHO AND HOW MANY AND WHAT DO THEY DO?

A team has a maximum of eleven (11) players on the field at any one time, although a game can be played with as few as seven (7) on the field. In younger age divisions, Regions use short-sided teams which gives players more "touches" on the ball and thus the ability to learn skills quicker. The kids find it more fun too! So a region may reduce the number of players on the field to three (3) for Pre-Kindergarteners up to nine (9) for 5th and 6th graders.

The 4 main positions in soccer are:

  • Goalkeeper: also known as the "keeper," this position is responsible for guarding the team's goal and preventing the opposing team from scoring. There are no "goalies" in soccer, only in hockey! The Keeper is the only one who can deliberately handle the ball with his/her hands, arms or shoulders; and then only while the ball is in the penalty area (the larger of the two areas designated around the goal).

 

  • Defender: this position's primary duty is to prevent the opponent from having a good shot at the goal. The defender also works to gain possession of the ball and pass it to a teammate down field for an attack. Defenders may be called full backs and sweepers as well.

 

  • Midfielder: also known as the "half back", this position plays a "transitional" game from defense to offense and vice versa. Usually the midfielder is the most active player on the field and key to maintaining team continuity.

 

  • Forward: this position has the primary responsibility of scoring and also assists the midfielder in shifting play from defense to offense.

It's important to remember that any player may score a goal, regardless of position or team. The hardest thing for any player to face is when he kicks or deflects the ball into his own goal and thus adding to the score for the opposing team. This is allowed and considered part of normal play. The key is to guard your goal and prevent the ball from entering -- no matter how.

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THE SKILLS

HOW CAN I BECOME A BETTER PLAYER?

There are several basic skills in soccer that can be learned at any age and are mastered by those players who continually practice them.

Passing is kicking, pushing or heading the ball to a teammate or to a space where a teammate can run to the ball. A player may lightly tap the ball to a teammate several feet away or kick it strongly to move it down the field. The ball may scoot along the ground or may be kicked into the air.

Most players use two types of kicks to pass to a teammate or shoot towards the goal:

 

  • instep drive which is a powerful kick using the top of the foot while the toe is pointed downward.

 

  • push pass which is done using the inside of the foot. The push pass is more accurate than the instep drive, but is less powerful.

Dribbling is transporting the ball under control from one area to another. In soccer, you can't use your hands, so players dribble the ball with their feet, using light taps on the ball to move it along the ground as they move; possibly while on a full run.

Controlling (or trapping) is stopping the ball in flight or on the ground, then controlling it by either dribbling or passing it to teammates. There are many ways to trap a ball:

  • allowing it to hit your chest at an angle that deflects it to the ground where it can be controlled.

 

  • allowing it to hit your thigh or side of your knee to deflect it to the ground where it can be controlled.

 

  • using your foot to catch and stop it.

Heading is unique to soccer. It's used to stop or pass a ball that's too high to kick or control with your chest. It's also used effectively to score. However, don't use it until your coach shows you the proper technique! Generally, we do not encourage heading to start until a player is 10 years or older.

Tackling is any attempt to dispossess the ball from an opponent. It is most often associated in spectators minds with the "slide tackle". Soccer is a contact sport and safe but aggressive contact is allowed when tackling. It is for this reason that we generally group kids by age and gender so as to keep things safe, fair, and fun. But be assured, contact is only allowed if incidental to the play for the ball. Deliberate attempts to push, trip, charge or otherwise contact a player will be disallowed by the referee.

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THE OFFICIALS

WHO'S PRIMARILY RESPONSIBLE FOR THE GAME?

In soccer, unlike any other sport we see in the USA, the Referee is the ultimate, unquestionable authority during a game. The referee's chief responsibilities are to make the game as fun, fair and safe as possible for all players. The referee interprets and applies the laws, keeps time, manages the field, players and others in the immediate vicinity of the field, and generally has the authority to start, stop, suspend, abandon and terminate the match.

AYSO recommends the use of three (3) trained game officials for all games at U10 and higher:

  • One Referee, and

 

  • Two Assistant Referee's

The Referee enforces the rules - which in soccer are called Laws - by righting offenses and determining if goals have been scored. A natural reaction by most coaches, players and spectators alike is to "arm chair quarterback" the referee's decisions. Remember the referees are trained and usually parents like you. They are there to help the players. It does not help to harass or question their judgment. Unlike a coach who could make 20 mistakes in a game and no one ever notices, a referee can have a "perfect" game with just one mistake and everyone tends to pounce and remember only that one mistake. Give the referees a chance and teach your child to respect their authority on the field. Like your child, the referees are there to learn from their mistakes as well. And they will make a mistake every game. But with mentoring, training, and skill development through practice, referees learn to quickly minimize their errors to be unnoticable in most instances.

The Assistant Referee (AR) provides vital assistance to the referee by signaling when the ball has gone out of play and which team gets possession. Additionally, the AR is primarily there to look for the offside offense, to assist with substitutions, indicate fouls that the referee may have missed, and provide help in the general control of the game. It is important to note that an assistant only advises the center referee. Only the Referee has the authority to stop play, award free kicks, and handle any issue that may arise. Do not be concerned if the referee chooses to ignore or override the assistant's signal. The laws allow the referee to judge when an infraction is worthy of a corrective action to restore fairness or safety. AR's may be more senior referees there to mentor and advise a Referee in training. Even in this case though, they are at there to assist the referee and follow their direction.

When a trained Assistant Referee (AR) is not available, the Referee may enlist a Club Linesman. As the club linesman is not trained, licensed, or likely free of conflicts; a linesman may only indicate to the referee when s/he thinks the ball has left the field of play by fully crossing the line. Often, the club linesman will not even be asked nor able to tell which team should get possession. A club linesman can never make offside determinations.

Why have assistant referee's? Remember, a field may be up to 100 yards wide (as wide as an American football field is long). And the offside rule can only be really determined by being in the exact right spot at each instant on the field. So this is a lot of ground for the referee to cover accurately and hence why a referee and two assistants are needed.

If no referee is available, a game cannot be (safely) held except in the youngest of age divisions (U8 and below) where a traned coach is allowed to oversee the game. In older, competitive games, three well trained referees are always needed.

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THE EQUIPMENT

WHAT WILL I NEED TO PLAY?

The Equipment List (the five S's):

 

  • Shirt,

 

  • Shorts,

 

  • Socks,

 

  • Shoes (mandatory; soccer shoes or cleats are generally advisable but not required),

 

  • Shin guards (mandatory, completely under the socks), and

 

  • One Enthusiastic Player!

Soccer has limited equipment requirements. AYSO teams play in uniforms (shirt, shorts and socks) that must be supplied by the Region. Shin guards are mandatory during both practices and games. Soccer shoes are also advisable, but not necessary. Some sort of athletic shoe that is safe for the player and others on the field is required. Officially, all players must be consistent, in the same uniform, and not distinguished or stand out in the clothes or adornments they add. So work that extra bit to look for those team color socks the night before the game. Your child may not be able to play without them. The referee has the full authority to inspect and disallow any player they feel does not conform to a standard of safety dictated by FIFA and AYSO. No jewerlry is ever allowed. So parent's, wait until after the soccer season to get your child's ears or other body parts pierced. A child cannot play or practice with earrings.

Regions generally provide all the field equipment such as balls, goals, nets and flags.

Uniforms cannot have the team name, sponsor logos, or childs name on them. This is for child safety reasons as well as keeping in the spirit of not identifying or pointing out the skilled or not so skilled players. We want all team members to look the same and no opponent to feel intimidated by some article of clothing. For this reason, it is important that your child always wear the issued socks, shorts and jersey. A referee may disallow your child to play if they determine an advantage or intimidation is coming from any non-standard clothing.

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THE RULES

THE VERY BASIC RULES OF THE GREAT GAME OF SOCCER

Rules in soccer are called Laws and there are seventeen (17) of them. If you'd like a full listing of the rules, visit the FIFA Laws of the Game page.

We won't get into all seventeen laws here, but will give you a general outline so that you can get a feel for how the game is played. Generally, the Laws require that referee start the game, then stop it when something has happened which is unfair or unsafe, and get the game restarted after dealing with the issue.

THE OBJECT: The object of soccer is for players to get the ball into their opponent's goal using any part of their body except their arms and hands. Only goalkeepers may use their hands to deliberately handle the ball and then only when the ball is inside their own penalty area. Outside the penalty area, the keeper is just like any other player on the field.

Everything else here describes the mechanics of starting or restarting play.

  • KICKOFF A kickoff is taken from the center circle at the beginning of the game, beginning of the second half and after each goal.
  • THROW IN After the ball has completely crossed outside the side boundary lines - called touchlines - a throw in is awarded against the team that last touched the ball. The throw in is taken from where the ball left the field and must be thrown with two hands from behind and over the head, while both feet are on the ground and on or behind the touchline. It is up to the referee to decide whether the technique used is legal and not gaining an undue advantage. In younger games, the referee may give the player a second chance to get it right. In older games, the poorly executed throw will result in possession changing to the other team for another throw-in restart.
  • GOAL KICK The goal kick is taken by the defending team each time the ball crosses the goal line, was last touched by an attacking player, and was not a goal. The ball may be placed anywhere in the goal area (inner area surrounding the goal) and is not considered back in play until it has left the penalty area (outer area surrounding the goal). All attackers must stay clear of the penalty area during this restart and no defender can touch the ball until it is in play outside the penalty area. A retake is awarded for an infraction of this.
  • CORNER KICK The corner kick is taken by the attacking team each time the ball is last touched by the defense before going over its own goal line (and it is not a goal). The ball is placed on the field within the three-foot arc in the corner of the field (nearest to where the ball went out of play) and kicked into play by the attacking team.
  • PENALTY KICK The penalty kick is awarded when a defending player commits one of the 10 penal (major) fouls within their own penalty area while the ball is still in play. The penalty kick is taken by a player from the offended team from a spot ~12 yards from the goal. All players must remain outside the penalty area, 10 yards from the ball, and behind the ball until the kick is taken, except for the kicker and the goalkeeper. The goalkeeper's feet must remain on the goal line until the ball is kicked. At the referee's signal, the kicker attempts to kick the ball into the opponent's goal and the goalkeeper tries to stop the ball from scoring.

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THE FOULS, OFFENSES, AND MISCONDUCT

PENAL FOULS

There are 10 major fouls that usually warrant a stoppage of the game and awarding of a free kick to the fouled team. The offense must be committed against an opponent, on the field of play, and while the ball is in play. Generally, it will be a foul only if it occurs near the ball while it is being played (it can be misconduct otherwise).

If the foul occurs by the defense in their own penalty area and against the attacking team, then a penalty kick (PK) may be awarded. Otherwise, a direct free kick (DFK) is awarded. In either case, a goal can be scored directly. These are termed penal fouls

The 10 fouls are divided into two groups:
These six require that the foul be committed carelessly, recklessly or with excessive force:

 

  • Kicking or attempting to kick an opponent.

 

  • Tripping or attempting to trip an opponent.

 

  • Jumping into an opponent.

 

  • Charging an opponent.

 

  • Striking or attempting to strike an opponent.

 

  • Pushing an opponent.

These four only require that they be committed:

  • When tackling an opponent, making contact with the opponent before the ball.

 

  • Holding an opponent.

 

  • Deliberately handling the ball (except for the goalkeeper in his own penalty area)

 

  • Spitting at an opponent.

Tackling in soccer means to dispossess the opponent of the ball. Often this occurs with a slide tackle performed by sliding in low to kick the ball away from the opponent. The slide tackle looks similar to a baseball player sliding into a plate except the target is the ball. You often hear a coach yelling "That was a legal tackle. He touched the ball first!" after a referee has whistled for a foul. Note that just because the player dispossessed the ball by touching the ball first, this does not give the player the right to subsequently trip or otherwise foul the opponent. The referee has to judge whether the tackle was performed in a way that the opponent could have avoided the subsequent trip. A foul is a foul and the referee is always right.

Realize that the referee has to make a judgment as to whether the player deliberately handled the ball, independent of whether a player received an advantage of the ball hitting the hand, arm or shoulder. Different referees have different standards for this judgment based on different age and skill levels of players. Generally, a player should be allowed to protect themselves or have their hands in a natural position for balance. The referee has to judge whether the ball hit the hand or the hand hit the ball. So do not be yelling out "handball" as the referee is trained to judge for deliberately handling. Often, at the younger ages, the offence and advantage is non-existent and it is better to sijmply let the players continue playing. Players quickly learn that they need to keep playing until the referee tells them to stop (and not the coaches and parents from the side touchline).

Soccer is a contact sport and fair charges (contact) to gain possession of the ball are allowed. Fair charges are momentary shoulder to shoulder contact (from the side). Any contact to the chest, back or "hip checks" as you see in hockey are usually considered an unfair charge and thus deemed a foul. Players can shield the ball with their body if within playing distance of it. Otherwise, they cannot impede another player. Generally, restarts must occur unimpeded, including allowing the keeper to release the ball from their hands.

NON-PENAL FOULS

There are eight (8) minor fouls and two offenses that result in an indirect free kick (IFK). At least one additional player of either team must touch the ball before a goal can be scored from an IFK.

  • Dangerous Play: including high kicking near another player's head or trying to play a ball held by a goalkeeper.
  • Impeding the Progress of an Opponent: getting between an opponent and the ball when not playing the ball.
  • Interfering with the goalkeeper trying to release the ball: the keeper, when handling the ball, must be allowed to hold and release it uncontested.
  • A misconduct that stops play but is not a penal foul: like abusive language, dissent, etc.
  • Specific limitations on the goalkeeper while having uncontested control of the ball in their hands comprise the four remaining minor fouls:
    • taking more than six seconds to release the ball from his or her hands
    • handling the ball when it was last kicked by a teammate (often termed "passback" but positions of the players is not a facgtor)
    • handling the ball after receiving it directly from a throw-in by a teammate

    • handling the ball a second time before another player has played the ball (often termed "second touch")

    • (note: that the keeper can only handle the ball in her own penalty area. Outside that area, the keeper is just like any other player and deliberate handling will result in a direct free kick restart for the other team and possibly a caution for unsporting behavior in older kids games.)

  • Second Touch offense: a player putting the ball into play on a restart cannot touch it a second time before another player touches the ball. Note that on a special case of a dropped ball by the referee, the referee is the one putting the ball into play.

OFFSIDE is actually a fairly simple rule to explain but one of the most misunderstood in soccer. It can also be difficult to judge during the dynamics of play unless you are in the correct position, directly in line with play, and trained. The assistant referees are trained to stay in this position at all times and so, along with the center Referee, are the only ones able to really judge the offense. The origin of the rule is to prevent an attacker from parking themselves near the opponents goal just waiting for the ball to be passed to them. This is considered to be off your teams side and an unearned / unfair advantage.

A player is guilty of offside if, at the moment the ball was last played by a teammate (not when it is received!), they:

 

  • are in their opponents half of the field,

 

  • are ahead of the ball,

 

  • are ahead of all or all but the last opponent,

 

  • are NOT the first to receive the ball from a throw in, corner kick or goal kick,

 

  • are subsequently involved in active play by interfering with play, interfering with an opponent, or gaining an advantage by being in that position.

Being "ahead" means being closer to the opponents goal line. A player does not become onside again (if caught offside) until the ball is played again by a teammate or opponent and the conditions above no longer all apply. Note that the offside player need not receive the ball. Also, deflections off of defenders do not count as being played by the defender.

The offside trap is often used by the defense. It involves anticipating the kick by the attacker to his teammate who is inline with the second to last defender and about to take off once the ball is kicked. The last defenders quickly move forward before the kick and thus put the attacker into an offside position and thus ineligible to play.

At the same time, forwards anticipate the kick and start running so they are just even with the second to last defender when the kick occurs. By time the defender can turn around and start running, the attacker is 5 yards or more ahead. A well placed kick to this running attacker can be a great offensive play. One can see why the referees are so busy as they are looking for these quick, sub-second game changing conditions while still watching for other issues of play.

MISCONDUCT There are two kinds of misconduct for which a player or coach can be 'booked" (recorded in the game record):

 

  • Actions resulting in a formal caution (yellow card) from the referee.

 

  • Actions resulting in a player being sent off or ejected from the field (red card).

Misconduct can be called against any player at any time, whether on the field or not -- before, during, or after the match. It can also be called against a coach but no card is shown if this occurs. A referee may warn a player or coach to improve his or her conduct (or unsportsmanlike behavior) before a caution is issued, but is not required to. A referee can suspend, abandon or terminate the game for any reason, including misconduct by spectators, weather conditions or other issues that affect the safe, fair and fun play of the match.

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CODES OF CONDUCT

FIRST, AN IMPORTANT RULE ON THE FIELD AND OFF

AYSO has always encouraged good sportsmanship in all its programs. "Good Sportsmanship", in fact, is one of the five philosophies listed in our National Bylaws. We strongly recommend and encourage all individual Regions to promote good sportsmanship through dynamic programs.

#1 rule - never criticize a player, coach, referee or volunteer of any kind, in any way, at any time!  Thank you.

NOW, THE CODES

The following Codes may vary from Region to Region, however, all define the fundamentals of good behavior - which is simply being courteous and respectful to everyone involved in the game. The way we figure it, players, volunteers and parents who understand what is expected of them in regards to good sportsmanship will probably act with good sportsmanship. Remember, it just doesn't happen - being a good sport needs to be taught by example, encouraged at all times and taught at every opportunity!

PLAYER'S CODE

PARENT'S CODE

COACH'S CODE

REFEREE'S CODE

VOLUNTEER POWER

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PLAYER'S CODE

  • Play for the fun of it, not just to please your parents or coach.
  • Play by the Laws of the Game.
  • Never argue with or complain about referees' calls or decisions.
  • Control your temper. Most of all, resist the temptation to retaliate when you feel you have been wronged.
  • Concentrate on playing soccer with your best efforts. Work equally hard for your team as for yourself.
  • Be a good sport by cheering all good plays, whether it's your team or your opponent's.
  • Treat all players as you would like to be treated.
  • Remember that the goal is to have fun, improve your skills and feel good. Don't be a showoff or a ball hog.

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PARENT'S CODE

As a parent, you play a special role in contributing to the needs and development of youngsters.  Through your encouragement and good example, you can help assure that all the boys and girls learn good sportsmanship and self-discipline. In AYSO, young people learn to work together, to sacrifice for the good of the team, to enjoy winning and deal appropriately with defeat - all while becoming physically fit and healthy. Best of all, they have fun.

Supporting your child by giving encouragement and showing interest in their team is very important.   Help your child work toward skill improvement and good sportsmanship in every game. Teach your child that hard work and an honest effort are often more important than victory - that way your child will always be a winner despite the outcome of the game!

Parents serve as role models for their children. Become aware of this and work to be a positive role model. Applaud good plays by your child's team as well as good plays by the opposing team.   Support all efforts to remove verbal and physical abuse from youth sports activities.

Remember that your child is the one playing soccer, not you. It's very important to let children establish their own goals - to play the game for themselves. Take care not to impose your own standards and goals on them.  Don't put too heavy a burden on your child to win games. Surveys reveal that 72% of children would rather play for a losing team than ride the bench for a winning team.  Children play for the fun of playing.

Positive reinforcement is the best way to help your child achieve their goals and their natural fear of failure. Nobody likes to make mistakes. If your child does make one, remember it's all part of learning, so encourage your child's efforts and point out the good things your child accomplished.

Coaches and referees are usually parents just like you. They volunteer their time to help make your child's youth soccer experience a positive one. They need your support too.  That means refraining from coaching or refereeing from the sidelines. As a volunteer organization, there's usually always an opportunity for you to take your interest in coaching or refereeing to the next level and become one yourself!

As a parent, you play a special role in contributing to the needs and development of youngsters.

Through your encouragement and good example, you can help assure that all the boys and girls learn good sportsmanship and self-discipline. In AYSO, young people learn to work together, to sacrifice for the good of the team, to enjoy winning and deal appropriately with defeat - all while becoming physically fit and healthy. Best of all, they have fun.

  • SUPPORT YOUR CHILD
    Supporting your child by giving encouragement and showing interest in their team is very important.
    Help your child work toward skill improvement and good sportsmanship in every game. Teach your child that hard work and an honest effort are often more important than victory - that way your child will always be a winner despite the outcome of the game!
  • ALWAYS BE POSITIVE
    Parents serve as role models for their children. Become aware of this and work to be a positive role model. Applaud good plays by your child's team as well as good plays by the opposing team.
    Support all efforts to remove verbal and physical abuse from youth sports activities.
  • REMEMBER: YOUR CHILD WANTS TO HAVE FUN
    Remember that your child is the one playing soccer, not you. It's very important to let children establish their own goals - to play the game for themselves. Take care not to impose your own standards and goals on them.
    Don't put too heavy a burden on your child to win games. Surveys reveal that 72% of children would rather play for a losing team than ride the bench for a winning team. Children play for the fun of playing.
  • REINFORCE POSITIVE BEHAVIOR
    Positive reinforcement is the best way to help your child achieve their goals and their natural fear of failure. Nobody likes to make mistakes. If your child does make one, remember it's all part of learning, so encourage your child's efforts and point out the good things your child accomplished.
  • DON'T BE A SIDELINE COACH OR REFEREE
    Coaches and referees are usually parents just like you. They volunteer their time to help make your child's youth soccer experience a positive one. They need your support too.
    That means refraining from coaching or refereeing from the sidelines. As a volunteer organization, there's usually always an opportunity for you to take your interest in coaching or refereeing to the next level and become one yourself!

Tools for being a Supportative AYSO Parent

Conversations before the games

  • Tell your child you love him/her regardless of the outcome.
  • Tell him or her “Go for it, give it your best shot and have fun!”

During the game

  • Understand that kids are over-stimulated during games. The coach is yelling instructions, opponents and teammates are talking, the crowd is cheering, and the referee is blowing the whistle.  Do not yell instructions to your child during the game, it will only add to the confusion. Sometimes the best thing you can do as a parent is to be quiet. Definitely cheer and acknowledge good plays by players on both teams.

After the game

  • Thank the officials for doing a difficult job.
  • Thank the coaches for their efforts. Understand that after a difficult loss is not a good time to question a coach.
  • Thank your opponents for a good game.
  • Congratulate your child and his or her teammates for their effort.
  • Compliment individual players on good plays they made in the game but try not to single out one or two players every game; spread it around.

During the car ride home.

  • Point out a good play your child made during the game.
  • Avoid criticizing or correcting mistakes.
  • Ask open-ended questions about how the game was played rather than how many points were scored.
  • Examples of open-ended questions that might apply:
  • "Did you have fun?"
  • "Did you give it your best effort?"
  • "What did you learn from the game?"
  • "What was the best play you made and how did it feel?"
  • "Did you bounce back from your mistakes?" 
  • "Did you see any good plays? What were they?"

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COACH'S CODE

In my words and action, I pledge to:

  • Enthusiastically support and practice the AYSO Philosophies of: Positive Coaching, Good Sportsmanship, Everyone Plays, Balanced Teams, and Open Registration.

  • Stay informed about sound principles of coaching and child development.

  • Respect the game and know the Laws of the Game.

  • Emphasize to my players that they must abide by the Laws of the Game at all times.

  • Develop a true respect for the judgment of all referees.

  • Develop a team respect for the ability of our opponents.

  • Ensure a safe environment for my players.

  • Never yell at or ridicule a player.

  • Always set a good example.

  • Remember that soccer is a game and all games should be fun.

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REFEREE'S CODE

  • Always remember the game is for the players. Player safety and fair play come first.

  • Study and learn the Laws of the Game and understand the "spirit" of the Laws. Help fellow referees do the same.

  • Encourage and enforce the AYSO Philosophies - Everyone Plays, Positive Coaching and Good Sportsmanship.

  • Respect other referees' decisions and do not publicly criticize another official.

  • Wear the proper uniform and keep it in good condition.

  • Maintain good physical condition so you can keep up with the action.

  • Stay calm when confronted with emotional reactions from players, coaches and parents.

  • Honor accepted game assignments. In an emergency, find a replacement.

  • Support good sportsmanship with a kind word to players, coaches and parents of both teams when deserved.

  • Always be fair and impartial, avoiding conflicts of interest. Decisions based on personal bias are dishonest and unacceptable.

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VOLUNTEER POWER

What are Volunteers?
People who give freely of their time and talent to a worthwhile group or cause. A volunteer is someone who believes that people make a difference and is willing to prove it.

Who are AYSO Volunteers?
Coaches, referees, registrars, fundraiser's, field markers, publicists, treasurers, administrators - many, many dedicated people all contributing their time and efforts to make AYSO a premier soccer program for kids! Generally, we need one of every two families to volunteer in some capacity, at a minimum.

Why are Volunteers so vital?
People power runs AYSO. Volunteers strengthen AYSO by giving their time, energy, ideas and ideals. AYSO happens because of our volunteers!

Who can be one?
Moms, dads, sisters, brothers, grandparents, even friends. AYSO needs volunteers who want to help make our soccer program a fun experience for kids - women and men, young folks, middle-aged folks and the "young at heart!" As AYSO is a non-profit, community service agency, time spent helping AYSO (as a coach, referee, or whatever) applies towards most community service hour requirements. This is a great way for siblings, who may have to be there anyway, to earn those community service hours.

As we say, "Everyone Plays" in AYSO and that means that everyone has something to contribute to the program. Our volunteers contribute:

 

  • special skills or abilities

 

  • time

 

  • energy

 

  • ...themselves

What do Volunteers do?
They do what is needed to make the program work. They:

 

  • coach teams

 

  • stuff envelopes

 

  • referee games

 

  • pay Region bills

 

  • make sure the fields are ready for play

 

  • take registrations

 

  • raise funds

 

  • schedule games

 

  • bandage knees

 

  • put up registration posters and take pictures

 

  • run meetings

 

  • take care of computer-related matters

 

  • ...make a difference

What do you get as an AYSO Volunteer?
AYSO Volunteers make new friends. They learn new skills. They develop their creativity. They investigate new careers. They enrich their lives by growing from their experiences. Plus, it's a lot of fun!

How can I participate in this vital role?
It's easy. Talk to your child's coach, call your Regional Commissioner or any of the Region's board members. They will be very helpful - and very grateful - to find the right job for you.

Take that first step, become involved in your Region and discover the Power of Volunteers.

Last Updated 8/21/2007

 

 

 

 

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